An overwhelming 98.2% of women report finding men engaged in a specific leisure pursuit notably captivating.
The Surprise Attraction Factor
While commonplace activities cherished by men globally frequently encompass pursuits such as athletics, trekking, overnight stays outdoors, home improvement endeavors, and tending to gardens, there exists one unexpected avocation that truly distinguishes itself when it comes to capturing the regard of women.
A recent poll conducted by Date Psychology, the findings of which were shared by the Daily Mail, indicates that this particular interest secured the leading position as the most desirable male pastime.
Naturally, outward appearance and disposition continue to wield substantial influence in enduring appeal—yet, what an individual chooses to occupy their free time with also carries considerable weight.
Less Appealing Pastimes
Intriguingly, the same survey not only highlighted the most alluring hobbies but also compiled a roster of the least attractive ones.
Drinking, for example, was placed among the top 15 least appealing male activities. This fact is particularly noteworthy given that 55% of men in the UK reportedly partake in alcohol consumption at least once weekly.
The U.S. dating coach Courtney Ryan offered her professional viewpoint via her YouTube channel, stating:
“I think it’s a major turn-off when someone needs alcohol to have fun or when drinking becomes their whole personality.”
Other interests that received unfavorable scores included collecting graphic novels, participation in costume play (cosplay), and formal debating—all perceived by many as less engaging.
The Most Desirable Hobby
But what exactly is the primary hobby women find most attractive in men?
Reading.
Virtually every woman polled—a remarkable 98.2%—indicated that they considered men who read to be highly appealing.
Other pursuits that garnered positive ratings encompassed painting, writing, photography, astronomy, hiking, blacksmithing, and archery—activities that are either inherently creative, active, or intellectually stimulating.
Male Perspectives on the Findings
Even men themselves concur with these survey outcomes. One Reddit user observed:
“The top hobbies are all creative or involve learning and being engaged. The bottom ones are more about escapism.”
Another contributor added:
“Sure, everyone enjoys a mix. But someone who spends time creating, exploring, or learning tends to be more attractive than someone who doesn’t.”
However, not everyone interprets this as an absolute guideline. One user presented a pragmatic viewpoint:
“Do what you love. If you’re only picking up a hobby to impress others, you probably won’t stick with it. Genuine interest is more attractive than pretending.”
And while some commended the insights provided, others dismissed the collection of hobbies entirely, labeling the list as “nonsense.”
