Can a final kiss be risky?
A farewell kiss can feel sacred — an instinctive gesture born from both love and grief. But in certain situations, that deeply emotional act may carry hidden risks. Dr. Viktor Ivanovik, a physician from Moldova known for his educational TikTok content, recently stirred debate after he shared a public warning: avoid kissing the deceased, especially when death was caused by infectious disease. His advice was simple but powerful — sometimes, love must be expressed from a safe distance.
While uncommon, the transmission of certain infectious agents after death is medically possible. Diseases such as tuberculosis, hepatitis B and C, and even hemorrhagic fevers can remain present in bodily fluids or tissues for a period of time following death. This is why public health experts recommend caution, particularly during outbreaks or when the cause of death is linked to a contagious illness.
Traditions involving close contact with the deceased — such as kissing the face or holding hands — may need to be reconsidered. This isn’t about fear; it’s about protecting the living, while still honoring the memory of the departed.
In situations where there is uncertainty, medical professionals and funeral directors can provide safe guidance. They are trained to support grieving families while ensuring health precautions are followed. When direct contact isn’t advised, meaningful alternatives exist. A handwritten message, a single flower placed near the body, or the soft glow of a candle can all carry powerful emotional meaning.
These small, symbolic acts allow us to say goodbye in a way that protects everyone involved — preserving both love and safety.
Ultimately, a final kiss does not define the depth of a farewell. The real measure of goodbye lies in the love we carry forward. Whether it’s through shared memories, personal tributes, or silent reflection, what truly matters is how we continue to hold that person in our hearts. Love, when real, needs no proof — it lives on in the way we remember, cherish, and move ahead with their presence still with us.